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Or, alternatively, from situations where they were overly controlled or hovered over.
To them, closeness is associated with burden or duty.
I thought a coaching article on relationships makes sense.
The 90 Day Wonders and beyond who disengage after the romantic stage of a relationship wanes).
They keep their partners at arms length often using work, children, hobbies, exercise, etc as exit strategies to keep unavailable.
They often came from enmeshed backgrounds where they had a lot of responsibility as a young age or had to care for ineffective parents or siblings.
As a coach, when “Relationship” shows up as a topic of interest for my clients, it is usually when some sort of dissatisfaction has kicked in.
Either my coaching client doesn’t have a primary love relationship (and would like one), or they have one but it has some challenges.